Ready to ease your pain? Sick and tired of your greedy wife? Going insane because of your wild kids? Wish to see your teachers dead with an “F” printed on their face? Well, I would completely support your desire if it did not sound that criminal. So, the only way out is to get some help for you. I mean a professional counseling, not just a proposal of your old friend to go out for a drink or buy a puppy. You need to get a deep review of your life, analyze it as soberly as you can, and concentrate on other things.
If you feel more like portraying the role of such assistant instead of being a victim, then, perhaps, the position of a psychologist is right for you. In case you’ve been studying psychology, sociology, or human resources for a while, you have all chances to join this complex and sensitive field. You will also need good nerves as some patients are really emotional. Besides, if you are an empath, you will experience even more difficulties on your way.
The truth about a psychologist is that they get paid that high for the unique ability not to go insane after listening to the problems of so many inadequate people.
There are a lot of options connected with this academic subject. For instance, the psychologist is not necessarily the one who provides private counseling. Some of the psychologists prefer assisting the entire groups of people with the similar troubles to save own time. They lead and coach those who have some addictions/obsessions like drug or alcohol addiction.
HINT: There is also an option to work as a clinical psychologist which means serving as industrial psychologists, forensic psychologists or school psychologists.
As you can see, you may intentionally choose the audience and your client base. By applying for the position of a school psychologist, you might guess it means working with kids or adolescents. This one is the most complicated one as the obligations are pretty high. You will then be responsible for the life and health of every child patient.
You are not the one if you do it just for money or authority. We are not speaking about gaining knowledge and practicing skills. The psychologist should suggest solutions that would help individuals to find an approach to coping with their mental and emotional conflicts.
It sometimes helps with solving some problems with physical health. To do so, they have to put themselves in the other shoes and feel the pain of the own patient. That is very hard from time to time.
As human beings, we all possess troubles. But psychologists have them double (and sometimes more). Empathy and the honest desire to make other lives better are features shared by efficient psychologists. They never simply shrug people’s problems off: they think of the best solutions and distracting activities to reduce the stress.
Remember! A good psychologist is always a good listener. And there are no other options.
When a clinician asks the client to have a sincere conversation, he does not make any guesses or pre-judgments. He is never subjective. Vice versa, he listens carefully to what patient says, watches every gesture, and analyzes every mimic. But he does not sit down and listen without saying a word. He also does not act like the character of Jamie Lee Curtis in Freaky Friday who used to nod and ask “And how do you feel about it?” That’s not a support. That’s a lie. No doctor has a right to lie.
A real psychologist utilizes own observational skills to make sure that he does understand what the person means or if he/she is saying something else. Psychologists know perfectly how to analyze behavior and actions applying
The third necessary characteristic is, of course, patience. Treating a nervous client with psychological disorders can be a long-term process. It may last for years.
Some people require whole life support. They get acquainted with their personal psychologist, and it becomes hard to survive without the appropriate advice for them.
There can be times when a psychologist feels that he/she isn’t making any headway with a client.
But it does not prevent psychologists from staying patient like an “Iron Arney” or Chuck Norris/ these experts hope a good outcome will ultimately follow after the treatment.
Good doctors possess excellent interpersonal skills. They should feel comfortable while speaking and giving recommendations to people of different backgrounds and personality types.
Not many living people can boast this sort of charm, credibility, and powerful persuasion. As for psychologists, they apply this talent to lead patients through the entire therapy process, asking follow-up questions that will bring clarity to what the client is going through. The alternative solutions are also discovered in such way. Often, expert psychologists offer two or more to face the client in front of a dilemma with a therapy purpose, not to make laugh of them.
Finally, all effective and honored psychologists have the ability to piece together even the largest life puzzle in order to suggest a solution or few to a patient’s specific problem. Right, these professionals never split all problems together.
They strive to cope with every reason of the particular mental disorder.
Psychologists use the information they have collected during the conversations (like his background, various life stories, experiences with other clients and theoretical knowledge of psychology) to define the core problem and all secondary issues, come up with a diagnosis and appropriate treatment plan.
From time to time, psychologists have to do this with the limited data they have on hand. It happens when patients don’t want to talk. However, it rarely occurs with the true professionals. But in case of such situation, psychologists have to get to the cause of a patient’s issues using whatever data they can get their hands on.
FUN: They sometimes work like Sherlock Holmes or Agent Johnny English in that they try to solve mysteries with the limited information available.